How can my loved ones deal with my personality disorder problems?

I have histrionic and dependent personality disorders as well as depression. I frequently blame my mother for my difficulties and I have difficulty accepting when she disagrees with me and we get into arguments where we both end up being exhausted. How can my mom get help with dealing with me?

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3 Responses to “How can my loved ones deal with my personality disorder problems?”

  1. Maud The Skivvy says:

    I think that you need to get help in dealing with yourself rather than expecting your mother to deal with the problem. That would be a useful first step for you.

    I lived with my mother who had personality problems and I ended up burnt out because of her. I don’t see her anymore due to the way she was behaving and the abuse I was getting from her. It was affecting my mental health and I ended up very depressed.

    You really need to get some therapy and treatment for your depression. You don’t need to live like this and you can find ways of dealing with your personality disorder more effectively rather than just being a passive victim of it.

    You need to find ways of taking responsibility for yourself.

  2. Lilith says:

    Your mother would have to go into therapy for herself and the issues that have come up for her because of your illness.
    You might come with her occasionally (rarely) but this needs to be her time, not yours.
    If you are old enough it would seriously help if you lived elsewhere. For the both of you.

  3. phillip b says:

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    20 loads of exercise running walking climbing something which you enjoy
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