How do I deal with this?

My ex of 8 years broke up with me last month and it’s really killing me, its like iv got lead in my chest and i just want him back!

The thing that is really hurting me, is that he has never slept with anyone else, or done anything with anyone else. (we have been together since we was mid teens). I dont know how i will deal with it when he gets with someone else, because he was and always has been all mine… do you know what i mean?

How will i deal with it 🙁 thanks

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6 Responses to “How do I deal with this?”

  1. Tay. says:

    ok listen..
    when your in a relationship with someone for 8 years.
    and you cant get over it yourself, do you think he’s getting over it?
    HECK NO.
    guys are softies when it comes to year long relationships.
    he stayed with you for that long he cannot move on within a month.
    and im sure even if he did, and say he had a girlfriend, or something…
    and then you happen to see him or something..
    he wont be able to even think about that other girl..
    what im saying is..
    you need to realize he will always have feelings for you as you will with him.
    and say he has sex with a girl..
    dont you think he’s gonna think that it wasnt as good as it was with you because he was actually in love with you and not in love with another girl?
    you dont have to deal with your emotions because just think..
    he’s for sure feeling the same way…
    you guys are on the same page.
    i have a feeling you guys will get back together.
    theres no way you couldnt.
    good luck :]

  2. bbx says:

    git back out there in the dating pool and find someone better (: i know it’s hard, and there’s really not much you can do but try to find someone who tops him off. I’m sorry you had to go through that, go have some fun girl (:

  3. VBKS says:

    Go..& get him back ! He has always been yours.how could you let him go?
    moreover you won’t find any other guy who will be truly & only yours..Make up with him..try sorting out the problems between you

  4. ~*Baby*Bytch*~ says:

    i know exactly what you mean; i was with the same guy since i was 13 n jus last november we split; every now and then during those years we would break up for a lil bit n see other people but we still belonged to eachother and now tht it really is over its hard to cope with since he is with someone else and so am i; just watch ur thoughts and try not to hurt ur new guy when u get around to moving on; dont compare all you will do is disapoint urself; no one compares to your first and true love & thts the harsh truth; its rough but if you allow urself to live ur life without him you will find tht u think of him less n less; jus try it; u have my best wishes

  5. stephany says:

    i had exact same thing .. although i wasn’t with him for 8 years. more 8 months. he had never slept with anyone else and me either .. then he cheeted on me.. it was hard but you just need to get back out there and find someone better than him , i know you will 🙂 <3

  6. tilda says:

    I understand what you mean, it must be hard to accept that he’ll be with other women after just being with you, but there’s nothing you can do about that.

    I wouldn’t jump back into dating, you’ve spend 8 years with a partner, why not spend some time with you now?

    Edit: what is with the people saying you two will get together again, if it’s over its over. There were reasons you split up after 8 years, probably just out grew each other.

    He was your first love, leave it at that. Spend time getting to know yourself now and if someone comes along you’ll know what you want.

    Dont be with someone for old times sake. Thats the worst thing you could do.

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