What Should I Do? Plz Answer?

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I love my fiance very much we have been together for almost 4 year and are 20 we live together but are completely broke I can’t find a job even though i’m trying very hard, his job is commission only and its the off season for his company’s sales they are just starting to pick up and we can hardly pay the car insurance which is 400 a month his mom has been lending us gas money for him which only give us enough for him to work a few days a week since he has to drive door to door for clients
We live with my parents we have are own space (bedroom and living room) he lives with me since his mom told him he has to pick me or living at her house they stopped talking for 3 months and its been 8 months since he moved in she refuses to have me around her family I’ve been around once since this happened and that’s only because I made my fiance start bringing me around when his mom had her baby (shes 35 his step dad wanted his own child) I went to the hospital with him the day the baby was born that was 3 weeks ago now and he refuses to have me around again in case she cuts him off of the gas money
we’re both pretty stressed out already from the money problem and living situation and over the last month i’ve been having pretty strong emotions, i get upset and cry very easily, get overly angry over something that should just irritate me normally and the last several days i’ve been worried im possible preg since i’ve been quite hungry lately, emotional, tired, I can’t eat meat because it makes me feel like throwing up every time i try to even take a bite, crampy, and etc the problem is with all the other crap i’m afraid to tell him cause if i’m not i don’t want to add more stress to him if i don’t need to.
I don’t know whether I should tell him or not what do you think I should do? and please explain your reason
thanks to anyone who answers

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3 Responses to “What Should I Do? Plz Answer?”

  1. acmerave says:

    Get married or split.

  2. EL3FUNT says:

    Get a pregnancy test from the dollar store (I hear they work as long as you are past due for your period) and then if you in fact are pregnant, tell him. But don’t tell him until you are sure so he doesn’t stress for nothing. Good luck!

  3. Coach Simon says:

    It’s no big deal to stop eating meat – millions of people do for all sorts of reasons. But you should be friends with your boyfriend first and foremost, and if you can’t tell him that you have gone right off meat, where is the friendhip?
    People fall madly in love, but it’s very hard to live on an emotional high for very long. Eventually we start to come down from the ecstasy, excitement, strong passions and desires, typically after around 18 months to three years (people vary of course). If couples are friends, discuss their mutual values, shared ambitions, interests, etc., in some depth (obviously there will be some differences, which help make relationships interesting), and make plans, work on their personal development, etc., this can develop into a long and wonderful relationship. If one party feels insecure or low in self respect, it can make for a difficult partnership. It’s easy to behave at our best when in love, but marriage, for example, requires a lot of self discipline, sacrifice, compromise and flexibility. If a strong friendship is not in place, the relationship will probably peter out eventually – or worse.
    Quite often we fall in love because we are lonely and allow ourselves to be won over by anyone who takes an interest in us. Thus we give away control to somebody else if we are not careful. This is another reason for taking things very slowly, and really getting to know someone before committing ourselves or getting too emotionally or sexually involved.
    Teenage & 20s marriages are so very often disastrous in the longer term: it’s very hard to get to know and understand others until we get to know ourselves, our own needs, etc. which are still fluctuating a bit until we are “mature” (often, but not always, of course, women in later 20s, men mid 30s). This is a very good reason for avoiding the emotionally bonding sexual intercourse, as it can so often lead to serious psychological and emotional confusion unless in a deeply loving, mature and well established relationship.

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